Private Transformational Coaching for Men

Transform Your Life From the Inside Out: Unlock Authentic Love, Leadership, and Purpose with Jeremie Lotemo

Hello Brother

Are You Caught in the Nice Guy Trap?

Feel like you’re always overlooked and underappreciated?

Let me guess, you've always been the good guy, the golden boy—reliable, and understanding, from work to family, and friends and romantic partners, you’re the one who's there for everyone.

Yet you feel like you're always on the outside looking in, especially when it comes to love and success. You find yourself constantly giving but never truly receiving, always available but never really valued, and navigating the persistent emptiness, and lingering question: "Is this all there is?" Sound too familiar? Keep reading.

“Jeremie is a well of wisdom and compassion when it comes to navigating the often murky waters of how our family history impacts us in the present. I came away with greater insight into what he calls the Mother Wound, and meaningful practices to understand, disentangle, and heal some of the challenges inherited from my relationship with my mom.”

— Albus Horvath

I've Been Where You Are.

Look, I've been there: forever the "good and loyal guy," only to find that same loyalty and availability rarely reciprocated. For years, I felt stuck, uninspired, and a haunting sense of inauthenticity, like an imposter in my own life. I've tasted the bitter medicine of heartbreak and betrayal.

But here's the profound truth: you are not alone, and more importantly, you don't have to go through it alone.

If you're reading this it means your life is calling you towards a transformation, one that will invite you to step into the fullness of who you are, reclaim your authenticity, live and love with a restored sense of confidence and self-trust, and I want to guide you every step of the way.

What Makes This Program Perfect for You:

  • You’re committed to healing your wounds with the feminine.

  • You find it difficult to say no, always putting others' needs before your own.

  • You yearn for genuine connections but fear showing your authentic self.

  • You want to be a better leader but struggle with assertiveness.

  • You feel overwhelmed when setting boundaries and communicating your needs.

  • You’re struggling to self-soothe through difficult and big emotions.

  • You are ready to create healthier and empowering dynamics with the feminine.

  • You've always been the nice guy but feel overlooked and unappreciated and want to break this pattern.

  • You're generous in offering support but don't know how to ask for it yourself.

  • You feel a strong yearning to embody the fullness of your masculine essence.

Real Men, Real Results:

Brian Green, Project Manager

“Before I worked with Jeremie I was going through a rough time with a breakup in terms of accepting that it was over and also with the anger I felt towards my ex-partner. I also had a poor relationship with myself which included poor self-love and a disconnect from my spirituality. Jeremie helped create a perfect plan to move pasted my relationship as well as help me take off the rose-colored glasses and see the relationship for what it was. He helped me access the repressed anger I was holding onto in order to move forward which was a barrier I was facing.

We did exercises, homework, and were in constant communication to ensure progress was being made. Today I feel I am in a much better place with the relationship. It's not something I am obsessed over any longer. I still have work to do however I'm in a much better place. Jeremie also helped me work on self -love through meditations, journaling, breathing exercise, and affirmations. To this day I still read words Jeremie provided me daily. I have developed a much deeper sense self-love after our work. The way I feel and the practices he gave to me will be with me for the rest of my life. I am forever grateful. Jeremie's guidance has forever changed who I am and how I relate to myself. He showed he truly cared about my growth time and time again which is everything you want in a coach.“

Marcus Bassani, Director

“Before I reached out to Jeremie, I was really struggling with projecting onto others. I was constantly devaluing myself and my needs. I never thought I could feel so comfortable and safe in love as I do now. Just his presence alone helped me so much. It’s crazy. I would have challenges that caused so much anxiety, and as soon as we confirmed a time for our next session something would shift energetically within me. Things would start to click, and then in the session I would see clarity in those challenges. Man I can open my heart to my partner now, and most importantly to myself. I can feel the universe holding me in it’s love. I am finding my faith. I am forever grateful for how he’s helped me.”

Cliff Poage, Principal

“When I look at where life is today, it's hard to believe our work together was only three months! I'm in a new job, and while I'm still practicing making and enforcing those boundaries an automatic response, I'm having a much different relationship with my boss and coworkers in very positive ways. I'm also in a newly blossoming romantic relationship, and realizing my work with Jeremie has had a great positive impact there as well. I noticed I attracted a much different type of person once I started to redefine my relationship with myself.  Once I started to value my own emotions and boundaries more, the people I found attractive and the person I've started dating embodied that value as well. It's been easier to have vulnerable conversations and ask for my needs to be met, and I feel much better equipped to lead myself and in my intimate relationship as well. It's also easier to express myself fully, without diluting my opinions and emotions based on what I feel my partner might think. I'm more secure in what I think and feel, and confident that those thoughts and feelings will improve our relationship instead of being judged or unwanted.  

I would wholeheartedly recommend working with Jeremie to anyone who wants to make a real, practical change in their life. If you're someone who struggles with knowing your own wants and needs, or have had your own emotions and wounds hijack your relationships, Jeremie's coaching will be a huge benefit.  Jeremie's work and assignments were always a mixture of conversation, journaling and practical applications. I left our session with a clear sense of what I was working on as well as concrete skills and strategies to practice.  I've done years of counseling and other forms of group work, but found Jeremie was the most effective work I've done. I'd recommend working with him if you're serious about changing your life immediately. It's challenging, difficult work, and you won't regret a moment of it!”

Paul Di Biase, Veterinarian

“Working with Jeremie helped me to dig deep into my authentic self. Before working with him, I was not being authentic and it affected every aspect of my life negatively. I am enjoying embodying healthy masculinity in the moment. I would recommend anybody who needs help being more authentic to work with Jeremie.”

You Can't Afford to Wait:

You've tried accumulating every positive masculine podcast you can find, waiting to have all your ducks in a row before you make a move, and just hoping for things to change.

But real transformation requires persistent and consistent action.

It requires delving deep into your psyche and your emotional blocks, confronting the shadows you've avoided, and taking proactive steps toward elevating your life. This is the comprehensive transformation you've been waiting for.

Take the Leap Now. Your Authentic Life Awaits.

Ready to step into your full potential? Ready to experience authentic love and relationships? Then take the first step towards altering the course of your life and reclaiming your authenticity.